I stumbled upon this post when I googled “oldest male virgins”…for me, being a virgin started out as something that wasn’t that bad at first when I was 18, but as I got older it became a major source of frustration…as I stare down the barrel of turning 40 I have fought feelings of desperation. I almost would rather tell a woman that I’ve done time in jail than to tell them I’m still a virgin. But I find this article encouraging…while I have had girlfriends, I can certainly benefit from overhauling my game and learn to flirt a little more. I wholeheartedly agree with the idea of quitting porn… porn is something I’ve struggled with for years and only recently have I gained the upper hand. I get it that many folks are ok with porn, but I was the dude morphing pictures and writing stories and just carrying it way too far. The whole point of me staying a virgin was saving myself for marriage, and now I feel I’m getting back on track. With the noticeable trend of men fathering kids in their 40s and 50s, I feel there’s still hope for guys my age and older that haven’t become sexually active yet.

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I suppose when I turned 50 I concluded that it was a lifetime thing for me. A combination of upbringing, belief, circumstances and a number of events in my life all came together in my life. I’ve had my frustrations with this – goes without saying, but at this juncture I’m content with who I am. I have friends of both sexes, nieces and nephews that aren’t like having one’s own children, but they do help. I suppose I’m a rarity but while I’ve held a woman’s hand, I’ve never felt a breast (much less anything else) except against my body when I hugged my sister.

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Hi, my name is James. It is a pleasure being here. I am glad for having been permitted to be in the Dilemmas of Male Virgins. Well, yes, this is a dilemma for many and lots of people. I am a 35 years old, virgin gay male. I believe that there are few virgins that are very rare to find in the worldwide. How about the 144,000 virgin males? It may be 10 percent of virgin males in the worldwide and the rest who are not virgins may be 90 percentage of men who are married with wives, or may have had sex with many women before marriage.

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I found this a typical, snide and disrespectful article on the virtues of celibacy. False assumptions are that men have less to lose than women in sexual intercourse, the men lose just as much in terms of self-respect, loss of vitality, shame over using a woman selfishly, and so forth. All Christians and people loyal to Gandhi’s principles have good reason not to have sex unless they have a mate to be committed to for life or for procreation. There are many idealists who have spoken of the virtue of celibacy.

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I must say, this article is true. I did everything wrong, am 32 years old and never even had a date or kissed a woman. and no, I´m not gay, I like woman… as much as I can. and I gave it up already. I will stay a virgin forever because somehow I started to be afraid of letting someone close to me. as a result I even refuse it to go out on weekends and spend the whole time and even my vacations with my parents. the doctors told me to move to a different town. I said that I will stay in my parents’ house forever. they need me.

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